“I can’t make mistakes today.”
It sounds like commitment. But take that instruction onto a championship pitch and every possession becomes a test you are afraid to fail.
You will misplace passes. You will lose contests. You may miss a score you normally take. So will players having excellent games.

The standard cannot be a match without mistakes. It has to be how you compete when the match is imperfect.
What are you asking the game to prove?
Before an important match, ask yourself why you are competing. Not just what result you want, but why you wanted to be part of this in the first place.
Perhaps you love representing your club. Perhaps you enjoy testing yourself against good players. Perhaps it is the people beside you, and the chance to pursue something difficult together.
Those reasons can disappear when the match starts to feel like a judgement of you: if I play well, I am good enough; if I play badly, I have failed.
That is a heavy burden to carry onto a pitch. Your performance matters to you and your team, but it does not have to decide your worth as a person.
Keep your ambition. Change the standard.
Accepting mistakes does not mean becoming casual about them. You still prepare, concentrate and take responsibility. You simply stop demanding something the game cannot give you: certainty.
You cannot guarantee the result, control your opponent or know how confident you will feel at throw-in. You can decide to offer for the ball, communicate and commit to the task in front of you.
You can lose one contest and compete for the next. You can have a difficult first ten minutes and still make an important contribution.
Instead of “I must not get anything wrong”, try: “I will stay involved, even when something goes wrong.” That is a demanding standard too — and one you can act on.

You do not need to feel brilliant before you begin
Some days the warm-up feels excellent. Other days you feel nervous, flat or unsure. Neither feeling tells the whole story of the game ahead.
If you spend the opening minutes checking whether your confidence has arrived, you can miss opportunities to get involved. Ask, “What would I do here if I trusted my preparation?”
Make the run. Communicate with your teammate. Offer an option. Let an appropriate action take your attention back towards the game.
This is not a demand to ignore injury or push through overwhelming distress. It is permission to play without first achieving a perfect emotional state.
Remember why you chose to be here
Before you leave the dressing room, finish this sentence for yourself: “Today I want to compete because…”
Your answer does not need to impress anyone. “I love playing with this group” may mean more than a speech about winning. So might “I want to see what I can do against good opposition.”
Then choose a behaviour that expresses that reason. If the team matters to you, communicate and support the player beside you. If you want the challenge, commit to the contest instead of hiding from the possibility of losing it.
“I chose to be here” can be a useful reminder when the occasion starts to feel like something happening to you.

Afterwards, review the game — not your worth
A missed score needs a different conversation from “I always let people down”. The first gives you an action to review. The second turns a moment into an identity.
Be specific about what happened and what you will practise. Allow yourself to recognise good contributions too. Then leave room for the rest of your life rather than carrying the match into every conversation for the week.
The practical review questions and in-game reset are in our performance anxiety guide for Gaelic games.
If pressure is taking the enjoyment out of sport or affecting everyday life, talk to someone you trust and consider professional support. The GAA’s mental fitness resources and HSE anxiety guidance are Irish starting points. Younger players should involve a trusted adult.
Championship should challenge you. You can care deeply about the result without making every touch a verdict on yourself.
Prepare well. Give yourself permission to be imperfect. Then go and compete.
Continue the series: Read about championship training and recovery and confidence through skill practice.
Written by Johnny Wilson, physiotherapist and Sport & Exercise Medicine specialist.
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